I sometimes wonder how much easier things would be if men were more honest about what they wanted. Like, instead of playing emotional games with women and pretending they want real relationships, they instead were honest and said they just wanted sex. Instead of pretending to be completely monogamous, they admitted that they weren’t interested in a monogamous relationship with all potential partners.
Why doesn’t that happen more? Why play with people’s emotions and then claim the person you lied to and hurt is “crazy” or “delusional”? Why not be honest from the start and save yourself a lot of grief later? I mean, if you’re honest with people from the start you can weed out the people who aren’t interested in what you want. Being honest with yourself and others puts you on the path to living a truly drama free life.